懷孕吐到很難受、身材又走樣，老公還補刀說「產檢AA制」，誰不爆氣？
The husband's joint inspection fee also needs to be AA system, which makes the wife feel very hurtAfter pregnancy and having a baby, is there really a way to continue the "AA system"? A pregnant woman posted on Dcard that she had been dating her husband for 5 years and married for 2 years. She had a salary of 40,000 and 80,000. She always had AA meals. Usually she had a meal and a meal, but it was not calculated very carefully. Family matters were divided at ordinary times, "He cooked, washed dishes, and he swept the floor, and I mop the floor."
The two people have a common understanding that they want to have a baby. They have worked hard for more than half a year. Recently, they have finally gotten pregnant. After the first childbirth examination, they found that the items that need to be checked by themselves are quite expensive, but the cost of the product cannot be saved, so they can still do it. The original PO said: "My husband told me that he would pay for these fees first and then give him half, or I would pay him first and then give me money."
The original PO did not expect that her husband would calculate so clearly. "I don't care about those money, I just feel the problem!" Finally, although she I answered, but I was a little unhappy. "I felt that it was difficult for me to vomit and my body to suffer from various problems with my body shape. As a result, the cost of the product was still AA. I felt a little unbalanced, but I was afraid that it would cause conflicts. It was so difficult to be a human being."
She complained that the cost of the confinement center was because she wanted to live, so she just had to bear it herself, but "I have to suffer from it all the time for the product, but I wanted to tell my husband that I was afraid of leaving a bump in my heart, but I didn't say it was difficult and I fell into two difficulties.
A netizen said one-sidedly that this is really too exaggerated, "Will the child give you a penny of money if you have no income?", "What should I do if you have a baby after pregnancy?", "Some invisible efforts of women after pregnancy cannot be measured by money", "If you feed breast milk, the spirit and time間、生產的痛、恢復到正常健康的身體，這些要怎麼AA？」
有人認為，結了婚要生小孩就不要AA制，以後還有很多公不公平的問題，比如他加班，妳去接小孩回家顧，這樣他的加班費是他的嗎？ Besides, because you can’t cooperate with overtime or get promoted, who is the annual salary he has been promoted?
網友強調，女人付出身體生小孩，產檢、月子中心老公出錢，這也是AA呀！ "Who said that AA can only be used on money. Since it cannot be equal, it must have demanded equality in other ways."
The real marriage is mutual consultation and supportNetworkers clicked, the original PO should be a very unscrupulous person, because even the confinement center is self-employed, which is more expensive than the birth test, but since you are not happy, don’t be wronged, “too stress can easily affect your mental health.”
A mother shared that her salary was similar to her husband, and she had always been AA after marriage before pregnancy. "After pregnancy, all kinds of discomforts in her body, he suddenly said he didn't want AA anymore, and he didn't let me do housework anymore." My husband also said that if he was really uncomfortable, he couldn't go to work, and it would be okay to rest at home.
Netizens believe, "It seems that I don't understand the true meaning of marriage... The man who really loves you will not think of this kind of money from you..." It is difficult to be fair in marriage. If you really want to plan, men don't have to be pregnant, and women have to bear the risk of childbirth is unfair as soon as they are born! Another netizen said it well: "In addition to trust in marriage, many things are mutual assistance and love." When my wife is tired, her husband helps with housework; when my husband is under great pressure, his wife can also provide family work. There is no one who should do anything, only mutual consultation and support.
The original PO finally decided to communicate with her husband and told him what he was in his heart. After hearing her thoughts, her husband felt very sorry, "He said he really didn't think too much, he would be responsible for production fees." She emphasized that her husband was very good to her at fair conditions and her relationship with her husband was still in a hot period, but her husband was occasionally nervous. In the future, the two will open a joint account, each of which will deposit money according to the salary ratio as public funds, and family expenses will be handled here, and the child will also discuss division of labor and care after the child is born.