"Great Idol" Wang Leehom's ex-wife Li Jinglei posted a 5,000-word essay, which made Wang Leehom's image fall to the bottom. Unexpectedly, Wang Leehom's father, Wang Dazhong, suddenly posted a handwritten letter in the early morning to clarify his son. Not only did he complain that Wang's father was lifting oil to put out the fire, but Wang Leehom was the "Dad Baby" hiding behind his father. Experts say that children must undergo setbacks when learning from an early age to avoid becoming the next "dad and mother treasure".
Many people think that the partner they meet during dating is just "filial piety". Whenever they think of it, they realize that it is "mother" and "dad". Yang Teng-Ken, a psychiatrist, said that "filial piety" is different from "dad and mother treasure". "filial piety" means respecting the opinions of parents, but still having their own independent thinking; "dad and mother treasure" means that everything depends on the opinions of parents and will not be responsible for it in case of problems.
Yang Teng said that "Dad Baby" will appear because parents always plan many things for their children from childhood to adulthood. Especially now that there is less birth, parents may cherish their children more and not feel like they are "helicopter parents", that is, they intervene, protect or commit suicide, just like helicopters spinning around the woman.
Yang Teng-kun said that adolescence is the time when you begin to be independent and grow. From the beginning of the National Middle School, women should be able to understand the gains and losses and learn to bear the consequences of various choices, so that they will not ask their parents to deal with any problems.
Ye Qibin, director of the Department of Psychiatry at the Third General Hospital, said that there is no standard for bearing setbacks and learning to "start at a few years", but rather, from an early age, you must seize every opportunity to let your children learn.
Many parents always use guidance and prevention of falling to help their children "clean up after they have a good time" because they want to help the next generation's mind, but instead kill the children's chances of frustration and delay maturity.
Ye Qibin said that because each child has different personalities and learning abilities, it is not as good as parents who observe their children's conditions and adjust the strength of frustration in a timely manner. There are three conditions to adjust. One is to help you deal with it and watch it for a lot of time; the second is that the father and mother participate in it; the third is that the father and mother only watch the child deal with it, and do not interfere. This will not make the child "can't rise" or it will not easily become another "dad and mother".